It isn’t always money that makes us rich

Even without much money, family can make us rich
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When we were young kids, my little sister came home from a weekend with her friend spent four-wheeling and boating on the big lake and asked my dad if we were poor.

Because somewhere between kicking up dust and riding the boat’s wake she realized what they had that we didn’t, and she wondered why.

Ah, comparison. It happened to my little sister earlier than it happened to me, but eventually we all outgrow our childish blinders to notice the things that make you comprehend we aren’t all created equal here.

I find myself struggling with this as I work on growing my children up in a world that strongly suggests that life is happier with more things in it. Bikes and cute clothes, an iPad with endless games, a toy-barn full of toy cows, a big sandbox, one of those lawn mowers that spits out bubbles as it goes and more space in the house to make a mess with it all.

Just this month I ordered my kids a big ol’ playset to go in the backyard, something that I never had as a kid, would have loved, but did just fine without. And knowing what needs to come of those four big boxes in my driveway, it looks like my girls might be off to college by the time we get the thing set up.

Then last week I stood under our big old barn reaching up toward a blue sky with an armful of the winter’s bale twine and a fresh cow pie squished under the heel of my boot. I was cleaning up the pens and tack room, sorting and organizing in an attempt get ready for the weekend’s branding.

 

 

 

I was sweaty and dirty and a little on edge from all of the mice running for their lives from under every grain bucket I moved and I was sort of cussing us for not keeping on top of the work out here and for not having nicer equipment, more organized outbuildings, well-kept fences and a bigger, nicer house that could accommodate all the family and friends we expected that weekend.

I looked up at that big old barn and the breeze blew the scent of that freshly squished cow pie to my lungs and I smiled.

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I don’t know how my dad answered my little sister that day, but if my children ever ask I’ll be sure to reply, “The list of things we won’t be able to give you could fill pages…

“But the scatter of those mice, the scent of the plum blossoms in the coulees in the spring, the ache of your muscles after a long day in a saddle, tangled-up hair and jeans that won’t come clean, forever knowing the sound quiet makes as day turns into night, the flicker of the fireflies and watching them glow so unafraid of the dark as we stand together on the deck of a home that, thank God, will never be big enough to hold all of the people we love, well children, I think we might actually be rich.”

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7 thoughts on “It isn’t always money that makes us rich

  1. Love isn’t things but family and friends. I especially love the picture of Rosalie lovingly looking up at her daddy!

  2. Loved what you wrote here! We are all guilty of wishing we could have better and more, but we are rich. Especially as ranchers and farmers because we get to have those moments like sore muscles, breathing in fresh air, and looking at nature.
    Thanks for bringing us all back to reality. I am going to have to remember this when our future children as the same question.
    Kadi Walnofer at Glitter in the Grit

  3. Loved what you wrote here! We are all guilty of wishing we could have better and more, but we are rich. Especially as ranchers and farmers because we get to have those moments like sore muscles, breathing in fresh air, and looking at nature.
    Thanks for bringing us all back to reality. I am going to have to remember this when our future children ask the same question.
    Kadi Walnofer at Glitter in the Grit

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  5. One of your best yet! Brought tears to my eyes and a lump in my throat as I remembered how I, too, was “rich” because of the people who shared in my life eighty some years ago! God is good!

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