We’re quickly coming to the end of another season out here on the ranch. School has officially started and my friends are posting “first day of school” photos of their kids, some sending their first borns off to kindergarden for the first time.
I’ve been spending time picking peas and beans, cucumbers, carrots and every red tomato I can find out of my garden, fascinated always by how time can transform dirt into food, just like that.
Fascinated by how time has made it harder for me to bend over and pick those beans every day, made those little flutters in my belly turn to jabs and hiccups…and then, soon, an actual tiny human that breathes this air.
Life and time are twin sisters it seems, conceived at the same moment and moving through the world together hand in hand. And just as time creates and grows life in one breath, it quiets it and takes it away in another.
And so it goes here on the ranch, the circle of life we’re made so aware of every day among the growing and withering things, reminding us that to everything there is a season.
Last week our faithful ranch dog, Pudge, gave us the gift of living until old age took her away in her sleep.
My husband came home to tell me the news, then went out to the big oak tree where we were married and dug a deep hole in the hard, dry, gumbo packed earth and buried our old friend.
“One day you will hear the sound of time rustling as it slips through your fingers like sand.” Sergei Lukyanenko
Yesterday I was just a kid shaking dirt off the carrots in the garden.
Tomorrow I turn 32.
Today I count the kicks in my belly, make plans to assemble the new crib in the box and miss that old dog…
Coming Home: Goodnight, Pudge, the sweet, tough cattle dog
by Jessie Veeder
Lately the coyotes have been howling outside our open windows, slicing the black silence with chilling wails. Inside the garage, our domesticated dogs rise from their beds, lift up their heads and howl back to them, long and dramatic cries, an unnerving message sent between the wild and the tame.
Somewhere between his dozing and me cutting through the dark miles, down the road at my parents’ place the oldest cow dog on the ranch took her last breath, and quietly, one of the most familiar lights on our ranch went out.
We knew it was coming. Pudge, an Australian shepherd with thick, wooly fur, one blue eye and one brown eye, came to us on a hand-me-down after her owners moved to town. Pops, who had lost his previous cattle dog to a snakebite, needed a new animal to help him get cattle out of the brush and to accompany him on rides.
We think she was 4 years old when she came to us. Lately, the topic of her age had come up often. I was in college, or on my way there. Could it be that she was 15? Fifteen and no longer possessing the strength to go for long rides with Pops, but holding on to the spirit of her job by making the walk with him to and from the barn.
That was the last walk they took together it seems.
And now we’ll no longer find her snuggled up in the her spot under the heat lamp in the garage in the winter, in the pickup box in the summer or trying desperately to make her way through the window screen and under the covers of my little sister’s bed during a thunderstorm.
Pudge hated thunderstorms. That might have been the dog’s only flaw.
Because it turns out she was just the right combination of sweet, smart and tough enough to be one of the few cattle dogs on this 100-year-old ranch to get the chance to die of old age.
This place can be hard on the strongest, most cared-for animals who live a life more in tune with their primal instincts than the couch-dwelling suburban pet.
Pudge tried out that life with me once. I took her back to live with me for a little while in college when life was overwhelming me. I’d take her for bundled-up walks on sidewalks and she would sit in the sunshine by the door and watch the cars roll by, comfortable knowing she had a purpose in helping me find my big girl legs again before I brought her back to her ranch where she belonged.
Before my husband came home to tell me she was gone, I was pulling carrots in my garden and singing to myself, “To everything turn, turn, turn … there is a season, turn, turn, turn … and a time to every purpose under heaven.”
If you can’t see that manifest itself out here, if it doesn’t become known to you as morning turns to night and summer turns to fall and the hair under your husband’s hat turns silver, you’re not paying attention or you don’t want to know.
It all happens so slowly and then so quickly, as if all at once the time has passed and then it’s up.
I listened to those coyotes howl last night and thought about Pudge, who would sit out at night under those stars, just on the edge of the light that flooded into the yard from the garage. When it was time for the people to lay down and pull the covers up, Pops would call to her to come in and she would pretend not to hear him, preferring a cool bed of grass under that sky to her fluffy bed.
And if Pops gave in and left her out there, she would wake him with her barks and wails to that dark sky for hours on end.
Sweet turned wild in the night.
Goodnight, old friend.
“It all happens so slowly and then so quickly.” Truer words were never spoken.
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Pets bring us more than they may ever comprehend..
A member of the family has gone. Pudge will live on in your hearts.
Beautiful. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you Jessie for sharing, now, and so often, your feelings and love for your dogs. They are hard working members of your family, yet so much a part of your family as well.
Yes it happens so slowly yet so quickly…I remember when you and your Dad would perform in Grand Forks on July 4th..wild hair and all….has it been that long?? Thanks for sharing. Rich
She was well loved and knew it. Lovely tribute Jessie
So sorry you have lost an old friend, Jessie.
My heart goes out to you and your mom and dad. We lost our dog to old age two months ago; your story brought tears to my eyes.