It’s been hot out there lately. I just pulled my first harvest from the ground in my garden and it got me thinking about the long, hot weekends spent on the ranch when I was a kid.
Back before we had a boat just a couple lawn chairs and a cooler full of pop and juice boxes to lug to the shores of Lake Sakakawea, on days like this my sisters and I would come up with a plan to get a chance to swim in that big lake that was so close to the house (well like 20 mile or so) we could smell them catching fish out there.
At least that ‘s what we’d tell dad in our subtle suggestion that maybe baling hay could wait for the day.
Maybe it was time to hit the lake.
A few weeks ago I met a young girl who said she reads my column in the paper every Sunday. I thanked her for being such a loyal follower and asked her what she would like to read more about.
“Oh, I like the stories about your childhood,” she said.
And so, inspired by her and a recent trip to the lake where we loaded up the coolers, sunflower seeds, summer sausage sandwiches, nephew, sisters, gramma and grampa and headed to the big water on the new pontoon only to hit the water just in time for rain, I decided to write about the simpler days, enjoying the short lived summer on the “beaches” of that big body of water…
Coming Home: When the day’s just right, ranch people become lake people
by Jessie Veeder
It’s hard for ranch people to be lake people.
Between trying to keep the cows in the fences, the hay baled and the lawn mowed, there’s not much time left to spend an afternoon with a fishing pole in one hand, a beer in the other and your feet up on the dash of a fancy boat.
But when you live so close to the biggest lake in the state that you swear you can see it from that hill out east if the sky is clear and you tilt your head just right, it’s pretty hard not to work a few lake days into the schedule.
When I was growing up, a chance at a lake day meant the conditions had to line up just right to make my dreams of jumping off a flat rock on the shore into the cold, deep, murky water of Lake Sakakawea.
First, it had to be Saturday or Sunday, and both my parents needed to be home with plans on doing something that was utterly miserable to accomplish in the blazing 90-degree heat.
Which means that, secondly, it had to be either the month of July or August, and said blazing 90-degree heat had to magically fall on a Saturday or Sunday.
Now, we all know how rare it is that those two circumstances converge, but when they did, we girls needed to be on it. We needed to wake up with the scent of the lake in our nostrils, ready to feel things out and set the plan in motion.
Maybe Dad would come in from working on a broken-down baler, all sweaty and fed up in the already hot midmorning sun. Maybe Mom was in her shorts pulling weeds from the walkway, stopping every so often to put her hands on her hips and shield her eyes.
Maybe the bugs were a little bad out there because the wind wasn’t blowing and it wasn’t quite noon, and so I took the opportunity to walk out and pull a few weeds myself, sure to mention what a great day it would be for a little swim in the lake.
And then maybe we caught Dad in the house splashing water on his face at the kitchen sink so I said something about how I heard that the fish were biting up at McKenzie Bay while my little sister was out digging worms in the garden, and pretty soon the seed was planted. Mom started whipping up summer sausage sandwiches, Dad started hunting for the old tackle box on the garage shelf where he left it the previous July, and my sisters and I packed up our favorite beach towels, pulled on our swimsuits, loaded the lawn chairs in the back of the old pickup, grabbed a bag of sunflower seeds and milled around in the driveway waiting impatiently in the hot sun, but not saying a word as our parents made the slow migration toward the vehicle.
Now, back in the youth of our family, there was no budget for things like boats or Jet Skis, so we didn’t have to fuss with that. No. Our biggest concern was avoiding the potholes on the worn highway, leaving the windows open so we could spit seeds and cool down, and, when that big lake appeared before us in the windshield like an oasis nestled in the hot cliffs of the Badlands, it was our mission to find an acceptable “beach” on those rocky, weedy and muddy shores.
And for us, “beach” meant that the legs of Mom’s lawn chair didn’t sink in to her butt when she sat down, the poky Canadian thistle didn’t reach all the way to shore and that there was at least an acceptable amount of sand and/or flat rocks where we could throw out our beach towels, make our picnic, stick a fishing pole in the ground, eat our sandwiches and watch the fancy boats and Jet Skis drive by before finding a place to wash the heat, work and worry of the summer off in the waves of a lake that belonged to us for the few sweet, relaxing, fly-bitten hours that we, too, transformed into lake people.
I have visited many lakes but never Lake Sakakawea which makes me sad but I
hope I still can visit it one day… I love the photo of the radishes !!! Just beautiful ! My Mother could eat radishes like candy !
My dad eats radishes like candy, so this bunch is going to him:)
Jesse…first off again so happy for you!! I knew it would happen…..often times it does:-)
The lake….the big lake… went there many times with Mom and Dad…..sailing and big boating….get off the boat up to your knees in stuff and then sand. And hunt!
What happened within an instant was finding mastodon teeth and the most beautiful fosels ever ……and petrified wood. Oh My. Just sitting there waiting for a human to unearth them. Amazing stuff.
Only a big lake like that can day after day as it rises and falls give such rich history. For a family…I will never forget it as long as I live!!
Only North Dakotans understand the rich beauty and ever wonders that Sakakawea will reveal year after year. Fish, Sun, sand, fossels…and history…before and made that day.
Revel in your abundance! You and husband and family have earned it!!
Jennie: I grew up in ND. I love, love, love your column! You bring memories back and I relive them. I can smell the dust, the mud, the murky water. The sweet smell of corn, the beautiful blue flax. The FRIENDLY neighbors who dropped everything to help out another neighbor. This is America. You are on your way to becoming ND’s Hemingway. Best to you, Husband and new baby!
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Summer sausage and sunflower seeds. Ahhhh….home.